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Here’s another quick tip:  Sometimes, to mix things up, either in addition to the paddle or instead of it, buy (or better yet, have HIM  buy) a piece of ginger at the grocery.

Figging is an excellent way to make him squirm and whimper without expending any effort or energy on your part.

Figging involves inserting a peeled ginger into the rectum.  It’s an ages-old method of dominating and controlling.  I think it was most notably used in English boarding schools.  But I’ve also read about it in modern Lesbian erotica.

"Figging is the act of inserting a finger of fresh, skinless ginger into the anus or vagina. It is a practice that dates from Victorian times, when it was used as a means of disciplining wayward women. When the anus is the target of stimulation, the finger is carved into the shape of a butt plug. When the vagina is the orifice of choice, the finger is carved into the shape of a canoe.

"The effect, simply stated, is caused as the ginger oils are released, and absorbed by the sensitive flesh. Though the rate of progression varies from 'recipient' to 'recipient', it begins as a gradual warming that becomes more and more intense, especially if the 'recipient' squeezes down around the finger . . ."

For the new FemDom, it seems gross to think of sticking anything into her man’s asshole.

But here’s the thing:  You don’t have to.  The beauty is, you have him trim it and peel it, and then have him lick it to slicken it (no oil – nothing to dampen the effect), and have him insert it.

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There.  You’ve not touched a thing.

And now, for the next ten to 20 minutes or so, you’re free to go about whatever it was you were doing while he becomes more and more infatuated with this flame thrower in his rectum.  On your signal, he handles removing it, disposing of it and cleaning everything.

When it’s over, he’ll say it was the same intensity as a hard spanking, only it lasts for more than an hour.

You’ve made your point, and demonstrated not only more control, but a whole new item for him to weigh against his ideas of bad behavior.

 

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