discipline
Women should be in charge. If you're reading this it's likely you agree that the world is a better place when women are in control. In the long run, probably.
Here's another quick tip: Sometimes, to mix things up, either in addition to the paddle or instead of it, buy (or better yet, have HIM buy) a piece of ginger.
Ironically, the same social order that raised her with feeling of discomfort in the exercise of power and authority has conditioned him to develop a very highly specific set of.