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Femdom Husband Training: She comes first (…and often as she likes)

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Exercising The Ten provides them both with a new perspective on their roles, reinforced daily.

And there is ample evidence – experiential, anecdotal and clinical – that delaying or outright preventing his orgasm for extended periods provides benefits to the relationship, adds to her pleasure and comfort (directly and indirectly), increases his diligence in courting his Queen and does no harm to his physiology. It’s all a ‘win’ for her, and that makes it a ‘win’ for him, too.

So while he may find his access to ejaculation a bit restricted, she, on the other hand, is free to explore and enjoy all aspects of her reign in her domain, including hand signals as a form of control, and, importantly, her own pleasure and orgasm.  In the latter, it’s true:  “The tongue is mightier than the sword.”

From ‘She Comes First‘, by Ian Kerner:

“Irony, bitter and cruel, seems to be embedded into our respective processes of arousal:  that a woman, so unique in her sexuality, possessing both a clitoris – and organ designed solely for the production of pleasure – as well as the ability to experience multiple orgasms during a single session of sexual activity, should so often find this vast potential for blazing ecstasy smoldered…all for lack of a match that can hold its flame.  

Few, if any, of the world’s problems can be solved with a mere twenty minutes of attention, and yet here, in the complex sociopolitical landscape of the bedroom, we have an opportunity to create bilateral satisfaction.  When put that way, in the context of sexual peace and equality, is  twenty minutes of focused attention, applied appropriately, really too much to ask, especially if it can save your sex life?
Take the path of the true gentleman: postpone your pleasure….Ushering a woman into orgasm is both exhilarating and liberating.  When she comes first, anxiety and pressure are dispensed with:  you are emboldened, empowered to pursue with gusto the gratification that awaits you – a climax that will be heightened all the more for having been postponed.”

Salient items, Uniquely Rika ‘D/s Questionnaire’:

4. The dominant partner should be in control of the submissive
partner’s sexual release
a. 24 hours a day / 7 days a week / 52 weeks a year
b. Whenever we’re playing
c. Never, he should be free to orgasm whenever he wants

5. Situations where a woman is orally pleasured by a man who
is compelled to act is a huge turn on and increases satisfaction
of both partners
a. Strongly Agree
b. Agree Somewhat
c. Disagree

8. A woman being pleasured orally by a man who has been
denied his own orgasm is a turn-on and a strong fantasy I’d
like to fulfill
a. Strongly Agree
b. Somewhat Agree
c. Makes no difference
d. Disagree, it’s really a turn-off

Buy the book…take the survey…see what happens.

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