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Femdom Husband Training: “Let’s pretend”

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Fantasy is such a savory, delicious thing.

It’s entirely possible to glide across a whole day more or less oblivious to the events and people around us as we immerse ourselves in some kind of fantastic world.  We come up for air from time to time, distracted by unruly people and events and noises all round us. But, barely taking a breath we can dive for the deepest pearl.

Truly, Hollywood’s depiction has nothing on our own ability to imagine and fantasize – and carry on an apparently ‘normal’ outward appearance.

“Let’s pretend…”

“Can I be on top tonight, honey?  Please?” said the scrawny man to his ample, gartered mistress in a Penthouse cartoon.

Is there room, is there a place for a ‘scene’ in a real relationship?  

Certainly – “Once we’ve established the appropriate context for ‘scenes’… ” [Rika]

There is no shortage of illustrations of the dominant female lifestyle nowadays, exhibiting literally every Variation possible.  But a distinction to this site is that it retains the focus on the real-world nature of ‘relationship’, not the schoolboy fantasy.

Is there room for femdom in a non-loving relationship? Yes, but only as long as one or both partners keep their boredom at bay. When there is no underlying basis, the well will, inevitably, run dry.  (“My analyst told me to pretend I love you, and I would.  I tried…I really did… But it doesn’t work.”)  The woman, already tasting and knowing something more and better, will move off to something new; the man will wallow in missing his Mistress, and fantasize anew.

But in a real marriage, with at least the modicum of elements of trust and love, things can take on a richness and intensity stemming from the respective commitments, surrender, control and growth (maturity). From time to time it can settle into de rigueur, but that convenient calmness rides like the surface of a tsunami.

From Uniquely Rika:

"I enjoy playing with S&M-type activities. I enjoy controlling,
teasing, and toying with my partner. I am willing to do a scene
every once in a while, but on my terms and my timing. Any
'fetish-tic' things I do, I do as gifts to my partner, because I know
he enjoys them, but I don't want him to expect or demand them
and they certainly don't define his service to me."

“Let’s pretend!”

“Ok.”

“Let’s pretend you’re the knight.”

“Ok. And let’s pretend you’re the queen.”

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